What if You Can Change Your Life in an Instant?

"If you change the way you look at your life, the life you look at will change."

Let me give you an example: you take your car, you drive to where you want or need to go. You are in a general good mood. Then, all of a sudden, a driver cuts you off. 90 % of the people will react. An insult or a strong remark, a trembling or shaking of the entire body, a sudden cold sweat, a knot in the stomach, a general sudden stress symptoms system has taken place in a matter of seconds. This is what is called: a reaction.

Two Possible Outcomes

Now let us examine the same situation with a different response: you drive, someone cuts you off; you brake slightly to decrease your speed, and you go on your driving, without being affected by the negligent driver. Your life is not affected. You remain calm, and "stay with yourself," balanced and safe. But, if you are like the other 90% of the people, you will be affected by the negligent driver error, and this may spoiled your next half an hour, hour, or even your entire day.

Why did I say "even your entire day?"

First, the only one who got affected or offended was... you! The other driver may not even noticed you were furious at him or her. Second, when you are getting affected by this negligence, you are sending a negative or low vibration, which may attract more bad drivers, and or more negative events!

That is the reason why I said if you change the way you look at your life, the events in your life, the way others act, etc, the life you are looking at will (surely) change.

A tip: if you run into this type of negligence on the road, try to imagine yourself rushing and doing the same mistake, or try to imagine a friend of yours as the negligent driver, or try to imagine the sweetest person making that mistake.

Another point is that we are, each one of us, responsible for this world. If we want a better world, let us change ourselves first, so all of us will change. Act as an example, send positive energy around you, try to respond instead of reacting, and the world will change for the best. But for the moment, let us be in acceptance of the world as it is, because there is only so much we can do.

Action Steps

1. Accept others as your potential friends, partners, clients, or customers.

2. Try not to get offended so quickly.

3. Let go; do not hold any anger, hostility, or low energy emotions.

4. Be is a state of gratitude.

5. Say, It could have been much worse, or: That is not the end of the world.

6. Smile. A smile gives instant comfort.

7. Forgive; no one is perfect, except God or the Divine or the Universe.

8. Be thankful that you are OK, safe, and healthy.

If you apply these steps, you are going to see great improvement in your life. Yes, you can change your life in an instant, if you change the way you see your life.

Emrick Garam has been in the self-empowerment business for over seven years, and has been voted the number speaker number in the self empowerment on the internet community.For more info on How to create or change your life, To find out more about how Emrick does it, go to his site: http://bestyourlife.com

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